Assertiveness and Self Confidence

I’m sure you can remember a situation where you should have been more assertive and made a stronger case for what was right. Sometimes a situation will arise so quickly that you don’t have time to think about being confident enough to assert what is right. You certainly don’t want to be over confident to the point of being obnoxious, egotistical, and arrogant. You don’t want to be too assertive and people won’t want to be around you and you also don’t want to be pushed around and taken advantage of either. So it becomes a skill set that you can work on, fine tune, and keep in balance.

People that have very little, if any, self confidence and rarely, if ever, assert themselves are in some ways holding themselves prisoner in their own minds. You can have more self confidence and learn to assert yourself when you feel the need to. When you become this type of person you won’t be easily manipulated and when you discover that you have been manipulated, usually you will put a stop to it immediately. Most of the time you will feel good about your decisions and will stand by them and your self confidence will help you right a wrong, champion justice, and feel you are in control of your life. If you can learn to build your self confidence and be assertive when you need to be, you will find that life in general will be more agreeable with you. You can be assertive enough to stand up for yourself and your rights while engaging in the art of give and take. You can be respectful of others feelings and points of view and at the same time have much less conflict in your day to day dealings with others.

Learning how to communicate properly and respectfully will be accepted more readily than someone with a combative disposition or overly aggressive nature. One of the best ways to be assertive in expressing your point of view is through respectful communication. Should you happen to disagree with someone’s point of view, but respect their right to express it, then there will be less conflict, and a mutual better understanding. Accept the fact that you can’t persuade or change everyone’s mind. When someone disagrees with you, you would be wise to adopt a Zen approach by expressing your point of view, accepting their point of view, and move on.

If you can be considerate of everyone else’s opinion or point of view, you will be respectful and intelligent. This doesn’t mean you have to change your point of view, your opinion needs to be respected along with everyone else’s, and don’t assume that your opinion or point of view doesn’t matter. It most certainly does, especially to you. If you have self confidence and you are able to express your ideas in confident way, then you shouldn’t have any trouble allowing other people to express their feelings and opinions, and in a respectful way and acknowledge that they have value as well. Pay attention to your body language and the expressions on your face. Be sure they reflect what you are saying and believing. If you have self confidence, you will be able to control your emotions when engaging in heated discussions or debates. You will be able to think clearly and think ahead before you act or say something that could come around and bite you later.

Assertiveness and Commitments

First of all don’t over extend yourself, or spread yourself too thin. There’s only so much time in a day and you don’t have any more or any less than anybody else. You have to eat, sleep, work, spend time with your family, and have relaxation or down time for your own sanity. If you don’t have enough time then assert your right to say no, sorry I don’t have time. Your life is full of all kinds of little chores that you have to take care of whether you like it or not. So the bottom line here in your personal life or on your job, assert your right to say no to the things that you don’t like to do, and be assertive but diplomatic when it comes to refusing tasks that you don’t like.

When it comes to volunteering for anything, even if you like the job at hand, it won’t be an enjoyable experience if you don’t like or get along with the other people who are volunteering. It could also end up being counterproductive. You would be better off not only sticking with the jobs you like and the other individuals involved. If you don’t like the other volunteers or leaders just tell them no thanks.

When you know it’s time to say no thanks, you also need to know how. Whether it’s in a social volunteer type situation or on the job, you need to be tactful and diplomatic. You certainly don’t want to create animosity and then it ends up being a situation where no one will ask you in the future. If you have a healthy level of self confidence and respectful in being assertive, then you also won’t feel guilty about saying no.

If you really don’t want to do something, it’s best to be honest and up front about it. If you have a good level of self confidence you can be assertive without making up some lame excuse why you don’t want to do something. One thing is for sure, if you are honest, you won’t have to worry about someone tripping you up and catching you in a lie later. Even if you feel the reason you don’t want to do something is due to a sensitive situation, you don’t have to give a reason, and you could simply say that you don’t want to. If you are always honest about whether you want to do something or not, you’ll feel better about making that decision, and you won’t feel guilty in doing so. I’ve said it before, but it’s worth repeating, and that is it always pays to be respectful when refusing to do something. You may not want to do or volunteer for something right now, but you may want to another time, so there’s no point in being rude or obnoxious when saying no. The bottom line, it is always in your best interest to be kind, considerate, and respectful.

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